Saturday, January 31, 2015

Ben's party

It's hard to believe my baby was one year old over 3 months ago now. While it seems on one hand like it was just yesterday that I was praying and praying for another baby…it seems on the other like he has always been here. If there is one thing for sure, it is that we couldn't imagine our lives without sweet Ben. He has filled this house with an immeasurable amount of joy.  We celebrated his day with family and I'd like to say the day was perfect, but in all honesty, it was not. It actually may have been one of the worst days in my entire life. Our best friends were here and sweet Hazel and the boys were playing outside and she fell from our stairs 8-9 feet on her head. On concrete. I can now say I have witnessed a miracle from God, first hand. I shutter every time I walk out to where she fell. There is no way she would have walked away from that fall other than the absolute pure grace of God. So it was a tough day. Sometimes life is just that way. Somehow, we still managed to have the party and other than being stressed more than I had planned, it turned out good. Ben had a blast. We are so very thankful for him!

I'm not really sure how I came up with his birthday idea, but I know I wanted something boyish and simple. And, something in the backyard. There's just something about October afternoons in the back yard..football, family, friends, and cake. Can't really beat it!  

One day, I'll spend extra time on making the pictures pretty like I used to. But for now, I'm doing good just to sit down and half way organize them to post. 

Photo overload….





















And, that's it folks. He's on his way to TWO!




Ben is ONE!

Well, actually ben was one 3 1/2 months ago and honestly he's changed a lot since . He's saying and doing so much more now and it's hard to even remember him at 12 months. So, I'll just share his sweet little pictures and move on :)

Based on the chalkboard that is still sitting against the wall from his party, 3 1/2 months ago, I do have a few "stats"

He had 6 teeth and weighed around 21 lbs. He's a pretty small guy considering how much he likes to eat. He loves crackers, yogurt, and applesauce. He loves dancing, books and giving hugs. He could say "momma", "dada", "cracker" and "tractor". And the last 2 sound exactly the same. You have to use context to figure out which he's saying! And, he LOVES his grandaddy's gator.







Thursday, January 8, 2015

The Kitchen "Reveal"

After weeks of living in a wreck and making decision after decision, it's finally done. Im sure I'll put something on the walls at some point and I'm sure there will be some minor changes but hopefully nothing big. I debated new light fixtures and really, there is plenty of light so it wasn't necessary over the bar. I thought it might even be too much.  I took the shades off of the DR light so its practically new (to me at least). 






I could have at least wiped off the fingerprints from the dishwasher and moved the soup from the stove, but, well, I live here. And it was lunchtime and Ben was just waking up and Leon was walking in the door. So, there it is, fingerprints and all. 


This isn't really the kitchen but it is just around the corner and got the same new flooring. 

And, keeping it real here, folks. I didn't want the microwave on the counter so there it is, on the dryer. I was hoping Leon would agree to a built in (in cabinets) but he convinced me not to right now. And I wanted it on the shelf but it just wouldn't fit and I see no point in buying a new (smaller) microwave. It's not really optimal, but it works fine. I've shown some of my favorite parts of my house and my laundry/pantry/medicine cabinet nook has to top my list as my least favorite areas. I just usually keep the curtains closed!

Baking before:
Baking after:

I still sometimes bring that highchair over, but usually I don't because I can still see him from the stove and sink. I can even see them playing now while I cook. I simply love it and am so happy with the results. 


Kitchen Renovation

One of the things we thought we loved about our house when we moved in was the kitchen. In reality, we were just blinded by those giant appliances! No, really we didn't have a problem with it until we had kids. And for the past 5 years, I've felt like I was in a tiny box. A world away from everyone else in the house. Completely closed off.  And, I know this is quite petty, but I really hated bringing the highchair back and forth to feed the baby while I cooked or cleaned or made cookies or whatever (because he constantly eats!)  It would completely block off the doorway.  I stayed in that room more than any other because I normally cook/clean up after at least 2 meals a day, usually 3.  So, while our situation was by no means "BAD", it just could've  use a little improvement to make it work even better for us. I've been wanting to knock out the wall for years but it wasn't really something Leon could undertake himself. So, the weekend of Ben's baptism, Leon's dad was up and we decided to go for it. We didn't really even have a plan. So unlike me! The plan was to get rid of the wall and open it up as best we could. And, we just hoped the entire second floor didn't come crashing down on us when we took it out. We had decided to replace the floor with raw wood and try to match to our existing hardwood. We (LEON) wasn't really up for refinishing hardwood floors, but nothing matched perfectly and we couldn't spend that much money and still have to redo, so we went with raw. Our house is  over 80 years old and the basement in just under the kitchen which made tile not an option in my opinion. It had tile before but it was cracked in at least 3 or 4 places and it hadn't been there too long before we moved. I wanted something that would actually last. And it stayed cold and dirty looking. Whoever did did the tile work didn't seal it well and no amount of scrubbing would help it look clean. No harsh chemicals, no "DIY grout cleaner", no vinegar, no bleach. I tried it all. So, I was completely game with new floors and wall gone. SO, without further ado…

Here is the before. No clue why the color in the picture is so terrible. I guess it adds to the "before" effect. 




Nothing "unlivable" or anything. It was fine before. The mixer is on the DR table because I was making cookies. Always making cookies :) I really should have taken up close and personal pictures of the counters and floor though, it looked much worse than it appears in these pictures. 

Here we go….no turning back now!!


Even though you can't tell much in this picture, I already knew it was a good decision. I already felt like I could breath in there!

The morning of Ben's baptism party…AT MY HOUSE

Like I said, this wasn't a well thought out DIY project. None of ours are really. We just go for it. 


I'm not going to lie. Much more living like this, and I might have moved out for a while!

I don't have any pictures of them taking the tile up, but it was a TOUGH job for them! I wouldn't recommend it just for fun or anything!

And, I'm pretty sure neither would be willing to move that refrigerator or stove anytime soon!



The sander was so easy to use, even I could do it. Much different than the one we used  upstairs. That one would chew a hole in the floor and make clouds of dust everywhere. There was even a little bag that held all of the dust on this little guy!

We had decided to use raw wood, sand everything down and use the floor polyurethane (oil based polyurethane) to make everything flow so you wouldn't be able to tell that we had "new" floor.  When everything was sanded, it matched perfectly. I actually could not tell the difference AT ALL in old wood and new. It was amazing. We just admired it. 

It isn't completely sanded in this picture but you could not tell what is old/new, except for what still had finish on it, obviously.

Then, down went the poly.
Looking good

UNTIL….

The polyurethane darkened the old wood and it was very obvious where the two met!! It almost made the old wood RED. 

So after some googling and a trip to sherwin williams, we found a solution that worked…it's not perfect but MUUUUCH better. And apparently I don't have a picture of the finished part? 



Cutie helper!

The biggest part (most important part) of the renovation was taking the wall out and installing new floors. We couldn't figure a way to incorporate the existing counters so we decided to go ahead and get new. At one time, I had thought of adding a "bar" out of something different like old wood or marble even. But, we decided it wasn't really a good idea. Besides, we may have had the worst granite on the planet. It was out of remnants and was very poorly laid. It was chipped, the glue was GREEN and flaking off. It was just bad. I know it was just a counter and it really didn't bother me THAT much, but while we had everything torn apart, we just went with it.  And since this was the only chance to change anything else major, we went ahead with a farmhouse sink too. I have always loved them and they seem so much more of what we needed. It is big enough for baby/toddler baths and big enough for high chair tops and cookie tins.  The whole renovation was a slippery slope but honestly one of our best decisions in our house. 

Our sink was just the right size for a little bathtub for this guy

I had SO much help picking out these barstools. Seriously, Ben is the worst baby to bring in a store in history of babies. The kid HATES being strapped in anything! Between him screaming and letting Bishop in charge of one of the buggies with the barstools, I'm sure TJMaxx was almost willing to GIVE me the barstools if I would just leave ;) Oh, and it was POURING out. Go figure. 


I honestly wanted to jump up and down this day. Picking countertops was just awful. I had read and read and READ on different kinds….granite, quartz, quartzite, silestone, caesarstone, marble, butcher block, etc.  I searched high and low in the 100 degree heat with 2 kiddos in every granite shop within 2 hours from here and I just couldn't find what I wanted. Everything I thought I wanted was considered "exotic" and just way too expensive or I couldn't even find it or it was sold. Everything I seem to pick out in the slab shops were marble. It was always marble that my eye went to. I had so many people say NOT to do marble and read so many reasons why NOT to do marble that I was just convinced it wasn't even an option. It stains, it etches, yada yada yada. I came across a few articles that made me finally decide that maybe it was something I wanted to try. I always tend to go the opposite of what everyone says I should do anyway :) And one of the guys laughed at me for always picking marble and said he himself wished he had gone with it and had stained his granite with his coffee pot after like a month or so. So, we decided to just do it. No looking back. Like every other decision we have ever made! We've had the kitchen for months now, and I do not regret it in the least. Sure, there are signs we live in our kitchen and if you get really close you can see imperfections. But, I'm ok with that. One day I may change my mind, but for now we love it.  



And we couldn't have a new kitchen without a new backsplash, right? Leon is really a jack of all trades! Aside from around the outlets, I think it was a pretty simple job for him. I mean, after all the other jobs at least!

We also repainted the cabinets (still white), installed open shelves, put in under cabinet lighting and put butcher block on one of the sections of counter. I debated doing it all butcher block because I do like the look and it was a much cheaper option but I felt it just wouldn't work for us. Plus I thought maybe too much wood with the floors? Anyway, I have no picture of any of that. The day I picked up the butcher block Bishop and I got the stomach bug and Leon got it a few days later and the last thing on my mind was taking pictures. Sometimes we are in survival mode. Oh, and we got a new dishwasher. Because of course, ours decided to kick the the bucket when we were done spending money in there. Naturally. 

Up next, the finished project!